i just flipped through my besties @ my long time childhood friend's Friendster profile.
she's been inactive for quite a long time. well, who doesn't. i too have been inactive for a long time. since everybody else is now into Facebook. i looked through her pictures, i clicked the button Next, and Next, and Next. Hansel.(not real name) her ex boyfriend. i'm wondering how is he now. he's been a heartbroken dude. a very heartbroken guy. poor him. he's been hoping much on my besties. well, everybody was expecting their relationship will last for a long time. i was one of the people.
remembering the old days, the two of them were inseparable. they really care for each other. enough saying that, they were like the Romeo and Juliet. they broke up early this year. i think. and Hansel turned to me for help to save his relationship with my besties.
well, i helped the best i can. i mean, through texting. we don't met. never face to face actually. but he recognised me. i gave him advices. and advices? he's so stressed out. and sometimes i caught myself stressed too. because i am troubled by other people's trouble. but believe me, i am ready to help my friends anytime. but please at the right time, i hate it if my sleep time is being disturbed.
i kept on telling Hansel to move on with his life without my besties, but he just can't.
i know it must be hard to let go someone you loved so dearly, especially when you have given and shared your life and gone through a lot of good and hard times with that somebody someone. who could ever forget that? he sacrificed a lot for my besties, and according to Hansel, he ever got beaten up by my besties's brother for sleeping in with her. and they both had promised each other to stick together through times.
but ever since my besties moved to Kuching, she's completely a different person to Hansel.
umm, it's a long story to tell. but anyway, like i said, i helped the best i can.
Hansel got amazed of me advising him. like i've been so much experience like this.
well, proud (?!) to say that, i never went through such situation as him! i must say that, i learned from other people's experience. especially from my brother. there is one time, my brother called me, telling me that he's not in the mood. and asked me to say something to cool him down. he's having problem with his girlfriend at that time. so, i tried advising him. telling him ; if you love her let her go, if she comes back to you, then she's yours. if she doesn't, then she doesn't belong to you. hey, sounds familiar?
well, actually this quote is sooo true. i truly agree. but i know, letting go of someone is hard to do.
back to Hansel, he stop contacting me months ago. i don't remember exactly when.
i hope he will heal through times. and i hope he will found his true love of his life. and as to my besties,
i hope she's free from other people's curse or whatever it is. i will pray for Hansel and my besties best of luck for their future life.
Monday, September 27, 2010
okay another post
truly, deeply, silly but seriously by : mARSAnz at 12:07 AM
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